tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958628245051693162.post2950292460088986541..comments2023-06-28T03:39:34.465-07:00Comments on Counting Our Blessings: QuestionsMichellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15909067457868282757noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958628245051693162.post-91788012185423410142013-09-19T07:52:27.758-07:002013-09-19T07:52:27.758-07:00Yes! I have definitely felt the same way! In fact,...Yes! I have definitely felt the same way! In fact, have a half written blog post about it. Sometimes I feel like I struggle with where I fit in, if at all, in the preemie world because my micropreemie is "healthy". Because somehow we survived with minimal lasting effects. The only thing I can come up with is that we feel guilty because ultimately, it isn't in our control. Of course we were there for our babies, prayed and hoped for our babies, just like the other parents. But it wasn't up to us and I think for me that's where the guilt comes in. If it was something that I could say "Look what I did!" or something I felt like I had control over then I could feel better about being able to fully appreciate the fact that he is healthy. I'm rambling, and I don't know if that makes sense, but I know where you are coming from and you aren't alone :) The Kimmelshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02822076540485203983noreply@blogger.com